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How can I protect my self?

Abstinence, or avoiding sexual contact, is your best and only 100% certain way of preventing STDs. There is really no way to have a sexual relationship with another person that does not put you at risk for STDs. Ideally you should wait to have sex until you are ready for a permanent relationship with just one person and when they are equally committed to this relationship and to only having sex with you. Even in this situation, there is a risk of STDs if you or your partner has had other sexual relationships prior to this relationship.

How can I protect my self if I am having sex now?

Using a latex condom is your first line of defense although condoms will not prevent the spread of some STDs that are spread by skin-to-skin contact such as genital warts, genital herpes, lice, etc. Use a new condom every time you have sex. Many teens are embarrassed to buy condoms, but if you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to act responsibly. Don't let embarrassment prevent you from taking care of yourself and your partner.

Think ahead and always be prepared! Use an unlubricated condom for oral sex. Males and females should both carry protection.

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What are other ways to practice safer sex?

Have sex only with one partner who is not infected and is only having sex with you.

Talk with your partner about past sex partners and about any needle drug use. Don't have sex with someone who you think might have a STD.

Before you have sex, look closely at your partner for any signs of STD. If you see anything you are worried about, don't have sex!

In addition to condoms, use birth control foam, cream, or jelly. These kill many STD germs.

For oral - anal/vaginal/penal sex, use a barrier such as a dental dam or unlubricated condom to reduce the risk of STDs.

For finger/hand - anal/vaginal sex, use a finger cot or glove to reduce the risk of STDs.

Urinate immediately after sex - this may help remove harmful germs from the urinary tract.

Avoid using alcohol or drugs that can impair your judgment, making you more likely to engage in risky sexual behaviors.

Have a medical exam every six months if you are sexually active. Talk with your doctor and make sure that you are checked for STDs during the exam. Remember not all STDs have symptoms!

Know the symptoms of STDs. If you notice a symptom, go see a doctor.

If you have a STD, your partner must get treated. Don't have sex until your treatment is complete.

Should I be worried about Sexually Transmitted Diseases?

You bet! Over 3 million teenagers a year are diagnosed with some type of sexually transmitted disease (STD). Some are curable, some are not. Having sex brings on a whole new set of emotions, but getting a STD can overwhelm you emotionally. If you suspect you have had sex with someone who has a STD, seek medical help.

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Here's something to think about . . .

Remember having sex is YOUR choice. If you choose to have sex, be responsible. Practice safe sex!